Wednesday, May 22, 2013

The 100 saddest songs


The 100 saddest songs, according to Adam Brent Thoroughgoing, author of 


This Will End in Tears: The Miserableness Guide to Music:

1. “Adagio for Strings,” Samuel Barber
2. “Strange Fruit,” Billie Holiday
3. “In Darkness Let Me Dwell,” John Dowland
4. “Marie,” Townes Van Zandt
5. “Rank Stranger,” The Stanley Brothers
6. “I’m So Lonesome I Could Cry,” Hank Williams
7. “Only the Lonely,” Frank Sinatra
8. “Nothing Compares 2 U,” Sinead O’ Conner
9. “Caroline, No,” The Beach Boys
10. “DP 1.1,” William Basinski
11. “Tennessee Waltz,” Patti Page
12. “Last Night I Dreamt That Somebody Loved Me,” The Smiths
13. “Dark Was the Night, Cold Was the Ground,” Blind Willie Johnson
14. “Dido’s Lament,” Henry Purcell
15. “Holocaust,” Big Star
16. “Auld Lang Syne,” Guy Lombardo
17. “Who Knows Where the Time Goes,” Nina Simone
18. “Past, Present and Future,” The Shangri-Las
19. “The Last Letter,” Rex Griffin
20. “Gloomy Sunday,” Björk
21. “Sometimes I Feel Like a Motherless Child,” Paul Robeson
22. “I Wish My Baby Was Born,” Dillard Chandler
23. “Not Dark Yet,” Bob Dylan
24. “Alabama,” John Coltrane
25. “You Forgot to Answer,” Nico
26. “Der Abschied (The Farewell),” Gustav Mahler
27. “Taps,” Daniel Butterfield
28. “Crying,” Roy Orbison
29. “Hurt,” Johnny Cash
30. “Hallelujah,” Jeff Buckley
31. “St. “James Infirmary Blues,” Louis Armstrong (1959 Recording)
32. “He Stopped Loving Her Today,” George Jones
33. “Song to the Siren,” This Mortal Coil
34. “Mille Regretz,” Josquin des Prez
35. “The Dark End of the Street,” James Carr
36. “Ne Me Quitte Pas,” Jacques Brel
37. “Shipbuilding,” Robert Wyatt
38. “Highway Patrolman,” Bruce Springsteen
39. “My Mom,” Chocolate Genius
40. “Lush Life,” John Coltrane and Johnny Hartman
41. “The Same Deep Water as You,” The Cure
42. “Hope There’s Someone,” Antony and the Johnsons
43. “Remember My Forgotten Man,” Joan Blondell, Etta Moten
44. “How to Disappear Completely,” Radiohead
45. “How Can You Mend a Broken Heart,” Al Green
46. “Dies Irae,” Thomas of Celano
47. “Dress Rehearsal Rag,” Leonard Cohen
48. “The Blizzard,” Jim Reeves
49. “Your New Friend,” Smog
50. “Cocktails,” Dennis Wilson
51. “I See a Darkness,” Bonnie “Prince” Billy
52. “I’ve Been Loving You Too Long,” Otis Redding
53. “Dry Your Eyes,” The Streets
54. “Hymne A L’amour (Hymn to Love),” Edith Piaf
55. “Lorena,” Rev. Henry D. L. Webster, Joseph Philbrick Webster
56. “The End of the World,” Skeeter Davis
57. “Sadness,” Ornette Coleman
58. “Our Song,” Joe Henry
59. “Feel Like Going Home,” Charlie Rich
60. “Te Recuerdo Amanda (I Remember You, Amanda),” Victor Jara
61. “Der Liermann (The Hurdy-Gurdy Man),” Franz Schubert
62. “I (Who Have Nothing),” Ben E. King
63. “Brother, Can You Spare a Dime?,” Bing Crosby
64. “Tank Park Salute,” Billy Bragg
65. “Trouble of the World,” Mahalia Jackson
66. “The Electrician,” The Walker Brothers
67. “Con Onor Muore (To Die With Honor),” Giacomo Puccini
68. “The Band Played Waltzing Matilda,” The Pogues
69. “Lonesome Town,” Ricky Nelson
70. “On the Nature of Daylight,” Max Richter
71. “Goodbye Pork Pie (Theme for Lester Young),” Charles Mingus
72. “Blue in Green,” Miles Davis
73. “Everybody Hurts,” R.E.M.
74. “Adagio in G Minor,” Tomaso Albonini
75. “Borrowed Tune,” Neil Young
76. “River,” Joni Mitchell
77. “Twilight,” Elliott Smith
78. “The Colour of Spring,” Mark Hollis
79. “Cantus in Memory of Benjamin Britten,” Arvo Pärt
80. “Blue and Grey Shirt,” American Music Club
81. “Stay With Me,” Lorraine Ellison
82. “100,000 Fireflies,” The Magnetic Fields
83. “Symphony No. 3 (Symphony of Sorrowful Songs): Third Movement,” Henryk Mikolaj Górecki
84. “The Kids,” Lou Reed
85. “Prelude No. “4 in E Minor,” Frédéric Chopin
86. “I Wish It Would Rain,” Johnny Adams
87. “Withered and Died,” Richard and Linda Thompson
88. “Sam Stone,” John Prine
89. “Blemish,” David Sylvian
90. “The Shortest Story,” Harry Chapin
91. “Suicide is Painless (Theme From M*A*S*H*),” Johnny Mandel, Mike Altman
92. “Fruit Tree,” Nick Drake
93. “Katy Song,” Red House Painters
94. “Wish You Were Here,” Pink Floyd
95. “Sour Times (Live),” Portishead
96. “Someone Like You,” Adele
97. “Death Letter,” Son House
98. “Mr. Blue,” The Fleetwoods
99. “The Ballad of Lucy Jordan,” Marianne Faithfull
100. “The Sun’s Gone Dim and the Sky’s Turned Black,” Jóhann Jóhannsson

Wedding Songs and their links


Wedding Songs

Beautiful Wedding Songs
A Moment Like This - Kelly Clarkson
All My Life - America
Beautiful In My Eyes - Joshua Kadison
Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
Close To You - Maxi Priest
Dance With Me - T Carter Music
Endless Love - Lionel Richie & Diana Ross
For You I Will - Monica
Forever And For Always - Shania Twain
From This Moment - Shania Twain
Here We Stand - T Carter Music
I Could Not Ask For More - Edwin McCain
I Do Cherish You - 98 Degrees
I'll Grow Old With You - Adam Sandler
It's Your Love - Tim McGraw & Faith Hill
I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
I Will Be Here - Steven Curtis Chapman
Just The Way You Are - Billy Joel
Nothing Compares To You - Sinead O'Connor
Power Of Love - Jennifer Rush
Spend My Life With You - Eric Benet
This Ring - T Carter Music
When I Fall In Love - Celine Dion
When You Say Nothing At All - Ronan Keating
You Are The Love Of My Life - George Benson
You're My Home - Lea Salonga
Wedding Ideas - Wedding ideas for a beautiful wedding. 

Monday, May 20, 2013

Dilemma. Heart broken


Heartbroken seems to be something common in my life. Hi dear readers, I would like to share a story of mine which everything started when I was in my school age. Had this sweet cute love for 5 years when everything ended up because he cheated on me. An express love story to start my life huh? I proceeded my life until I got into college. I found someone who's really kind and sincere to me. He did really cared bout me and helped almost everything when I just started my college life. He was 4 years older than me and we really had great time. But my life didn't get that easy when I suddenly fell in love with this guy,A. Yes, its my fault but I never felt such a deep love with anyone like A. As for result, I left the guy who's older than me and I went with A. Our life was like the most happiest couple ever had. We really know each other well, we even had the same family background which kinda complicated. its like when I'm with him, its like I'm in the other world which there's no one else but us. Happily ever after feeling. I soon realised that life couldn't be more easier when I really had my karma.
A told me that he wanted to take his time because of his studies and wanted to enjoy his life cz he didn't want to regret it later on(which I thought was bullshit). He just left me and without any news of him, sooner I found that he did went out with some girls. My heart was totally crushed and I was kinda insane for like a month. Come and go is want the life is, a guy which I never met eventhough we were in the same programmme for 3 years,suddenly wishes to be friend with me. We became friends and he started to confess his feelings towards me. I felt kinda guilty to give a straight no. So I did accept to be his gf but for the time being I told him that I didn't had those kinda feeling towards him cz I was too afraid to love someone again.
With no second guess, he accepted and we proceed our relationship for almost a year. After a chat and some memories, I started to had those feelings towards my bf. The problem is now, my current bf did something which really made me dissapointed. From what he did to me, as if like I'm someone with no dignity. Not just enough with those problems, suddenly guy A came back to me and asking me forgiveness. A told me that he was too dumb and too ego to realize everything he did was wrong.
Now I'm in dilemma. I do love my bf, but I really loved A so much. Yeah for sure my bf has a totally different family background which I was really comfort with their ways for accepting me and he do love me. But with A was different, it was just love. I could only give love as my reason for wanting him. I always thought that if I really do love my bf that much, I wouldn't be this hard to choose between both of them. Means that my love is not that much for my bf as my love for A?? Currently I couldn't choose either one of them. I'm afraid that I would regret someday and I really don't wanna break any of their hearts. I told both of them that I just want to be friends with them. Just like me and my other friends. To ease this story, A is my ex which he left me but I really do love him with all my heart. He is kinda flirting type with other woman. My bf is kind and innocent guy who just made me dissapointed and make me feel like no dignity. Now the point is I know that I should choose my bf rather than A. But my love towards A is making me hard to decide. I really don't wanna regret and love someonelse while I'm married with another guy. I just couldn't decide who I should give the second chance. One who left me, one who made me felt like I'm such a cheap girl. I'm totally in dilemma. Any advice would be really a help for me. For sure a divorce after marriage is a no for me because my previous life from a divorced family.
Please. Help.

Mine is mine, the rest is common


I have a big shortcoming and it is that I play on the rule – “mine is mine the rest is common”
When somebody came into my perimeter, my jealousy goes out of control and I am able to do everything.
But if I am in somebody’s perimeter I am allowed to everything, and I don’t care too much. I follow my aim all the ways.
Please tell me how can I get rid of my possessive attitude?

A Confession Letter - I am jealous of him, help me...


Hi there!
I am a confused 17 year old girl. I have a two year relationship. Our relationship is amazing, we have never had arguments, we don’t even quarrel. He takes good care of me. The problem is that I am very jealous of him.
I am jealous of his friends, female friends, even his work. He never gave me reasons to be jealous. A month ago I wasn’t as jealous as I am now.
Last weekend he went on vacation with his friends. I wasn’t with them. And it all started. I keep on telling him that I don’t want him to go anywhere without me. I think I am killing my relationship, and it is amazing, at least it was. I'm always crying when he is away, I can’t find peace of mind because of my jealousy.
Every time he goes away and I am alone, I go crazy. I started taking tranquillizers to feel better. I want to overcome this jealousy, but I don’t know how.
Please, if you have some ideas, share them with me.
I will feel so much better!
Thank you in advance!

Jealousy or what

I have been married for five wonderful years. We have it all mutual understanding, common interests, good sex life, nothing to complain about not even financial troubles. But I have a problem.
My husband is one of those charming men with perfect manners who captivate everyone with ease. That is one of the reasons why I married him but nowadays this part of his personality makes me nervous.
It really bothers me when he pays attention to other women or when they pay too much attention to him. It doesn’t matter if it is a family friend, a waitress, the next door neighbor or even my sister. I get unreasonably angry and start thinking he is cheating on me with the woman he is talking to. I bite my tongue and think of a reason why they should end the conversation.
The monotony is killing me and I think it does the same to him. So I don’t understand why his innocent flirting is bothering me so much.
I hate that I spoil my own mood because of such trivial things.

True Love truned into nightmare


Hi, my name is James and my wife name is Angel. We have been together now for 5 years. Let me start with my background before I met my wife. Like all men, I too was enjoying my life to the fullest. I had lot of friends; went on a weekend outing, drinks, party and so on. I am a Christian and she is a Hindu and I had a lot of opposition from my parents and families. Even my friends advised me to stop seeing her and start new considering the consequences. But I was so much in love with her that I thought it is worth to live with her for 2 minutes and die rather than living without her for rest of the life. I somehow convinced my parents and families risking my father’s life. Due to all this chaos he had a major cardiac arrest and underwent bypass surgery. My mom’s blood pressure shoot to 190 and she bled from nose. Doctor said that she was lucky to live because with such high BP she could have had a cardiac arrest and would have never recovered. Well, I faced all these problems but still was firm to my parents that she is the one. I started losing interest in everything; started coming home drinking a lot, met with an accident and was just seconds away from death. My parents looking at my ordeal approved our wedding and we got married.
I could have married Angel without my parent’s consent, but my parents have done so much for me that I want their blessing in my wedding. We got married and everything was going fine for 5 to 6 months and then problems started. Considering that I am now a married person and have a lot of responsibilities I started concentrating in my work. I distanced myself with all of my friends, started working for 16hrs a day (so that I can have overtime), and even started working on weekends. All my hard work paid off, I was promoted as an Asst. Manager and had a salary hike of 75%.
The problem is my wife is suspicious on me for everything; she checks my mobile call log, messages and even my purse. She does not let me go out even for a minute, she keeps on calling me all day checking where I am, what I am doing, with who I am. She checks my mobile for unknown numbers and calls them back from her mobile to see if that is a male or a female. If it is a female, she creates such a ruckus that I feel like I am becoming a murderer with all the negative thoughts (can’t explain it here). Well, being a manager I have a lot of responsibilities and get calls all day long. I really don’t know what to do; I love her more than anything but her behaviour has made to think again. I have sacrificed my life so much for her and still sacrifice a lot but she pushes me to the limit.
It is no use talking to her, I have tried so many times to try to talk it to her and have her understand that her behaviour is not right. By God’s grace I have everything now and financially well settled. I am just thinking if she is really worth all my sacrifices or if I should move on without her.
Please let me know your suggestions to jamesnaveen29@gmail.com. I am very desperate..!
Thank You